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Finding out your child is hurting themselves can be really difficult to process and understand. It's easy to blame yourself, but it’s not your fault. There are things you can try to support your child while they’re struggling.

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Supporting your child who self-harms

  1. Try to understand the problem that’s causing the self-harm e.g. feeling low, out of control, or being bullied.
  2. Be available to talk, and if they feel like talking, try to listen openly.
  3. Support your child to find healthy ways to cope e.g. talking to friends and family, exercising, watching their favourite funny film or having a bath or shower. To find and access the most appropriate support complete the Branch questionnaire
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For advice and support surrounding why your child might be self-harming and how to help them:

Suicide Prevention Partnership ~ Resources for children and young people, and those supporting them

How to help someone who self harms

NSPCC ~ Young people and self-harm  

To better your understanding of why children might self-harm and the ways in which you can identify early signs: Coram Family Lives ~ Self-harm advice  

Self-harm Support – Alumina – Youthscape

Youthscape is a national charity dedicated to improving young people’s present and future.   Self-harm Support Alumina is a free,…

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Harmless UK

Our Mission: Harmless shall provide support, information, training and consultancy about self-harm to individuals who self-harm, their friends, families and…

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LifeSIGNS

LifeSIGNS (Self-Injury Guidance and Network Support) is an online, user-led charitable organisation, founded in 2002 to create understanding about self-injury and provide information and support to people of all ages affected by self-injury across the UK.

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Listening support service for self-harm – SIFT

Sift’s listening services offer free, compassionate and confidential support over phone, text and email. They are available to help people…

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Calm Harm

Calm Harm is an app designed to help people resist or manage the urge to self-harm. It’s private and password protected. Please note that the app is an aid to treatment, but does not replace it.

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YoungMinds

  Whether you want to understand more about how you’re feeling and find ways to feel better, or you want…

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Parents Helpline – YoungMinds

YoungMinds Parents Helpline offers advice to parents and carers. If you’re worried about your child or young person’s mental health or wellbeing, you can speak to us over the phone or chat to us online. Our Helpline provides detailed information, advice and support to parents or main carers of children and young people aged 25 or under. It is available across the UK and is completely free.

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The Mix

The Mix is the UK’s leading support service for young people. We are here to help you take on any challenge you’re facing – from mental health to money, from homelessness to finding a job, from break-ups to drugs. Talk to us via our online community, on social or our counselling service.

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Time To Reflect

When thinking about how to support your child who self-harms… 

What are you already doing that you want to carry on doing? 

What have you learned that you could try today? 

What do you want to do next? 

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Log into your free account (on the top right-hand side) to set a goal on something that’s important to you and your family – then you can check in to show yourself how far you’ve come.

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