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Finding out your child is hurting themselves can be really difficult to process and understand. It's easy to blame yourself, but it’s not your fault. There are things you can try to support your child while they’re struggling.

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Supporting your child who self-harms

  1. Try to understand the problem that’s causing the self-harm e.g. feeling low, out of control, or being bullied.
  2. Be available to talk, and if they feel like talking, try to listen openly.
  3. Support your child to find healthy ways to cope e.g. talking to friends and family, exercising, watching their favourite funny film or having a bath or shower.
Self-harm

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For advice and support surrounding why your child might be self-harming and how to help them:

https://thismayhelp.me/how-to-help-someone-who-self-harms/

https://no-more.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Information-for-parents-and-carers.pdf

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/childrens-mental-health/self-harm/  

To better your understanding of why children might self-harm and the ways in which you can identify early signs: https://www.familylives.org.uk/advice/teenagers/health-wellbeing/self-harm/  

Time To Reflect

When thinking about how to support your child who self-harms… 

What are you already doing that you want to carry on doing? 

What have you learned that you could try today? 

What do you want to do next? 

Know what you want to do next?

Log into your free account (on the top right-hand side) to set a goal on something that’s important to you and your family – then you can check in to show yourself how far you’ve come.

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